It’s supposed to be enjoyed. Sure there are references to a certain oral act as a ”job” but foreplay should never feel like work. It is the playful acts before the main event. It is the kissing and touching moments, or days, before the big bang, so to speak. Those are the moments that two share intimacy and closeness before moving on to the holy grail of giving and receiving. Sometimes it is a little more primal than that.
There are real benefits to it as well. In fact, most women require twenty minutes of foreplay to produce enough natural lubrication to even have sex. Consider it Mother Nature’s way of allowing smooth sailing. So don’t fear the foreplay! Embrace it, enjoy it, connect with your partner and have FUN with it!
SO tell me, How important is foreplay to YOU?
Foreplay is extremely important to me. It reassures that the relationship is not dead. That the intimacy is still strong between you and your partner.
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